Upon hearing about the twin flame concept, (that it is one soul split in two bodies) most people mistakenly jump into romantic fairy tale stories of what this union represents. In actuality, the twin flame dynamic is extremely complex, often very painful and scary, made more difficult by the overwhelming intensity of the connection. The experience can feel surreal at times, as both partners start to see actual magic happen between them. (Most people talk about how crazy they begin to feel when this happens to them, especially the telepathic connection!).
The purpose of this union is to heal all the unconscious wounding in the area of the romantic. This goes back to the earliest emotional attachment issues in childhood; that’s why it’s so painful.
The twins will be divinely moved to trigger one another, to bring these wounds to the surface. What is being asked of both partners in this dynamic is to move closer and closer to unconditional love, acceptance, kindness, and compassion.
The path or mechanism is through a conscious approach to relationship. This means dropping lots and lots of old patterns and learning to access the vulnerability, authenticity, and truth. It is learning how to love without rules, expectations, or conditions.
I work with individuals and couples through this process, sharing what I’ve learned and experienced in my own twin flame relationship.
Learning how to be in relationship consciously is not just about communication; it is more about self-discovery and coming into awareness. It means owning all of our emotional reactions without blaming or judging our partner. It means learning how to practice acceptance, forgiveness, the setting of boundaries, and honoring each other’s feelings. And then learning how to identify our needs and desires, and asking vulnerably for those things directly. Of primary importance is the proper commitment to self-love, while giving ourselves over to loving another.
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